Dating advice starts with a question: Do you want a spouse or do you want God’s anointed, appointed helpmeet?

Some people may question the difference. If I find someone willing to marry me, won’t they automatically become my helpmeet? No, not necessarily.

To further explain, let’s look at the lives and legacies of King Saul and King David. Both men ruled over God’s chosen people, but they lived quite differently and experienced far different life outcomes.

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